Finding Strength in Difficult Times
- Alexandra De Castro Basto
- Jan 16
- 2 min read
Updated: Jan 20
Finding Strength in Difficult Times
A Message of Support for Our California Community
As wildfires continue to devastate California, many are experiencing overwhelming loss, fear, and grief. For some, this isn’t just a distant disaster—it’s deeply personal. If you’ve been affected, please know that you are not alone. There are ways to find strength, support, and hope, even in the face of such uncertainty.
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Acknowledging Your Feelings
During a crisis, it’s natural to experience a flood of emotions—grief, anger, helplessness, or even numbness. These feelings are valid, and giving yourself permission to process them is an important step toward healing.
Take a moment to remind yourself:
It’s okay to feel devastated.
It’s okay to cry.
It’s okay to ask for help.
Grief doesn’t follow a straight path, and there is no “right” way to cope with loss.
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Caring for Yourself During Crisis
While it may feel difficult to prioritize self-care, small actions can help you stay grounded and regain a sense of stability.
1. Breathe: Take slow, deep breaths to help regulate your nervous system. Even a few intentional breaths can bring a moment of calm.
2. Limit News Consumption: Staying informed is important, but too much exposure to distressing updates can increase anxiety. Give yourself permission to take breaks.
3. Connect with Loved Ones: Reach out to friends, family, or your community for support. You don’t have to carry this burden alone.
4. Focus on What You Can Control: When so much feels uncertain, grounding yourself in small, manageable tasks can help you regain a sense of stability.
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Community and Support
California is more than just a place—it’s a resilient, compassionate community. If you’re struggling, consider reaching out to local support services or mutual aid networks. Whether you need emotional, financial, or logistical help, these resources can provide the assistance you need to get through this challenging time.
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Grief and Resilience Can Coexist
Even in moments of deep grief, resilience is possible. It’s okay to feel broken while still taking small steps to rebuild. Healing happens in its own time and in its own way, and there is no timeline for finding your footing again.
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I’m Here to Support You
If you’re struggling to navigate this difficult time, know that you don’t have to do it alone. Therapy provides a safe space to process your emotions, develop coping strategies, and find peace amid uncertainty.
Together, we can explore ways to hold onto hope and move forward—one step at a time.
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Final Thoughts
To everyone in California affected by these wildfires, my thoughts are with you. This is a difficult time, but you are not alone. If you need support, reach out to your community, your loved ones, or a professional who can guide you through this.
Let’s move through this together.
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